Most of the time, in our relentless efforts to find the true and sincere love with a person we want to spend eternity with, We fail to recognize and appreciate those people who’s willing to love us unconditionally and willing to sacrifice. We miss to appreciate those many yet little sacrifices done, those many little love being showered upon us, simply because we’re looking for something grand, beautiful things that may happen. In the process we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns, desires and wants
True and Sincere love,
in essence is going for the person of deeds and
not for the person of words, of need, of sex. Not even the person that you’re only happy to be with. For you will find yourself entangled in the maze of confusion.
not for the person of words, of need, of sex. Not even the person that you’re only happy to be with. For you will find yourself entangled in the maze of confusion.
The best lovers are
those who are capable of loving sincerely and honestly, Neither distance nor
time be a factor of infidelity, It could be a distance far enough to allow the
other person to grow, but never too far not to feel the love deep within your
being. Conquering time with the assurance of seeing each other, again, soon...
It may come a time
in our lives that we chance upon someone so nice and we just find ourselves getting
so intensely attached. A feeling that soon become a part of your daily life and
eventually consumes your thoughts and actions. The sad part is when you begin
to realize that this person’s words are mere words, not true, not sincere. In
the attempt of being fair. chances were given. Still dishonesty and
untruthfulness continues, Should you feel betrayed? But how? As betrayal
emanated from your core! Should you start
desperate attempts or just feel
sorry for yourself.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to
stop loving, It
only means that you allow that person to find his own and true HAPPINESS without expectations. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, But it is also setting yourself free from all fears, bitterness, hatred and anger that you kept within your core. Do not let the bitterness, hatred and anger gear away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom. Treasure good memories you have had. As these could be your tool to survive, more often than not we survive with the beautiful memories of the past, but peace and happiness comes only with acceptance.
Always remember, you may have lose someone so dear and special today, It may mean that someone better is coming tomorrow or the days to come. If you lose love, it that doesn't mean that you
fail. Cry, if you have to, but make sure that those tears wash away the hurt, the bitterness, the hatred and the anger. Let
go of yesterdays unpleasantness and only then love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
only means that you allow that person to find his own and true HAPPINESS without expectations. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, But it is also setting yourself free from all fears, bitterness, hatred and anger that you kept within your core. Do not let the bitterness, hatred and anger gear away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom. Treasure good memories you have had. As these could be your tool to survive, more often than not we survive with the beautiful memories of the past, but peace and happiness comes only with acceptance.
Always remember, you may have lose someone so dear and special today, It may mean that someone better is coming tomorrow or the days to come. If you lose love, it that doesn't mean that you
fail. Cry, if you have to, but make sure that those tears wash away the hurt, the bitterness, the hatred and the anger. Let
go of yesterdays unpleasantness and only then love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
"When you lose someone… you don’t need to think who loves the most, As love is better off shared, fairly , unconditionally......
aj 23-02-2013
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